Ep 6 - Letting go of the control you don’t have

What this episode is about

We can experience a lot of anxiety, stress and disappointment if we try to control everything in our lives. We just don’t have that much power, despite what influencers tell us. In this episode, we discuss what is and what’s not in our control and aim for being more realistic, less anxious, and freer.

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Key points

  • The difference that accepting reality can make to our lives.

  • “Don't wish for something you cannot control” - Epictetus.

  • Almost nothing is in your control.

  • Getting clear on this can bring tremendous freedom.

  • Being fatalistic is also fruitless and is a waste of your potential.

  • How to cease wasting time and energy.

  • At least three things you DO have control over.

  • Hard truth: The world has no love for us or for anyone else. And that’s okay.

 

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I’d love to hear from you if you have any comments, ideas or questions. Or even if you just need a sounding board for something you’re currently thinking about.

 

Rob Bialostocki

Hi there, I’m Rob and I love thinking, writing and speaking about living a life that matters, and becoming a better person in your second half of life. I’ve worked as a professional radio announcer, event producer, and for over 25 years a learning and development specialist in the corporate and professional services worlds. I have tertiary qualifications in science, teaching and psychology. I like to walk the talk so you get real, honest ideas and insights for your own life. Get in touch anytime.

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